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Women's Sexuality > Busting Our Sexual Myths
Many women do not know
where to start in understanding their sexuality and
how to gain truly satisfying sexual experiences. Here
we shed some new light on this subject (play the video below).
Your
sexuality is
The positive feeling you feel about yourself
That turns you on to all of life.
There are many false
myths and assumptions about women's sexuality that
persist despite the abundance of knowledge available
although, some of these negative stereotypes are now
fading. So lets look at some of these myths....
That women are less
interested in sex than men.
- Not true, a
healthy interest in sex is a result of general
well being. If any one is not interested in sex,
it is a symptom of some malady which needs
addressed be it social, mental, physical or
spiritual.
Sex for a woman is a
matter of pleasing a man rather than of her own
enjoyment
- Many people in
many societies still think this. In our opinion,
it is a selfish attitude or attachment to power
over another which needs to be overcome.
That it is wrong for a
woman to be aroused or to respond sexually.
- To be sexually
responsive, is a natural biological instinct
which is a symptom of good health. Do not hold
back, embrace your sexuality and express it where
appropriate.
There is a lingering
expectation that women should play a passive role in
sex.
- This is a cause of
self denial which will cause both physical health
problems and emotional scarring. You must find
the space to be both dominant or receptive as the
feeling / situation suits.
That men are more
knowledgeable about sex.
- Rubbish, given
that women bleed and are forced into learning
about their physical sexuality just to manage.
Unfortunately many still surrender to the
pressure of society and suppress sexual feelings.
Within our society
there is little understanding of the value of orgasm.
- Really, it is the
process of orgasm which connects the personality
with the spirit or soul and a life without orgasm
becomes a spiritual dessert.
Do we assign blame?
- We could, but what
is the point? Judgement and blame only cause more
suffering, and nothing can change the past. The
cast blame is ultimately self destructive for the
individual and society.
To embarrassed to talk
about it.
- In the beginning
sexual talk can be uncomfortable, but hey, take
heart from the extroverts who get up on the stage
and TV talking sex. If they can, you can.
Sexuality is affected
or programmed by a woman's:
- Upbringing and
the level of sexual education / religious
background
- The ability to
manage stress
- Verbal
communication skills
- Age, and feelings
about aging
- Physical
happiness with her body and towards herself
as an individual.
- Hormone
fluctuations based on the 28-day cycle.
Understanding your unique sexuality
starts with education and communication, whether you are
single or in a relationship.
Do you feel you want sex all the time?
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