If you saw the stage show, "Puppetry of The Penis" which has toured Australia and New Zealand, you will have seen what an tough and agile thing it is while soft. It will curl up, roll up, twist a full 360°. When hard or erect and remember it is filled by blood pressure, it is very tough, but when handled carelessly can be painful.

When meeting a new cock, do give it an overall erotic massage, get to feel your way around & find what feels good for you & him.

Things to do:

• Firstly don't just jerk your arm off..
• Oil your hands, massage & find out what gives the best response.
• Stroke the skin of the shaft
• Massage the shaft
• Massage the tip
• Experiment with very light, soft and firm touch
• There is often a point and the signal or request to go fast, get comfy as you get into it,  get your grip right and go for it pulling up and down
• Sometimes two hands do wonders.
• Try to imagine it is a big clitoris and do what you think would feel good and let yourself get turned on.