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Women's Sexuality > Sex Addiction
Is a topic to sit and discuss in depth,
opinions vary, experts disagree. Any addiction
signifies a lack of self control in some and addiction is where
you are in a place, where you are unable to manage,
or resist giving into the desire, temptation,
pleasure, or habit that has you hooked.
What is Sex Addiction?
Sex addiction is the uncontrollable desire to have sex as frequently as possible
with any partner.
Is Addiction Harmful?
While cigarette, alcohol and drug addiction can be fatal, sex addiction is not
and the main consequences are catching social diseases and the stigma of being
termed a nymphomaniac.
How to get control
Ideally we do not want control as control is a very
common habit that can easy hook you.
Learning control is important, as it
helps build your strength of character, it is
important that this control is without denial, rather
it must be soft, with acceptance, without any guilt
or regret (unless you need to own it), with release,
forgiveness and understanding.
The primary supportive tool is to love
yourself, out of love grows strength and wisdom, as
love grows, the light of love illuminates life, and
the ability to laugh.
Freedom from addiction and the harmful
effects of bad habits is liberation
Freedom is openness
Freedom stabilises personality, body and mind.
Freedom to more appreciate the beauty of life.
Freedom to take greater pleasure in living and giving
Freedom of conscious choice allows us to put energy
into a life were all life, experiences freedom and
joy.
Having sex
2 - 3x a week is not an addiction as
long as it feels right for you. Controlling the desire
for sex can be hard, especially after having a good
taste.. Move your sexual energy - the desire for sex
into other parts of your life. It may also stop the
headaches. Note there are many experts in this field
with widely differing opinions and in the end, it is
what you feel in your heart that is important.
Q:
For me well I had my first sexual contact about 5
months ago and ever since then I have had 2 other sex
partners and the reason for this is, that I feel like
I need sex. I feel so anxious when I don't have it, I
have had intercourse 12 times and I'm only 15years old. I was wondering if you could give me some tips on how
to control the anxiousness, and also when I feel the need for
sex so I don't get it I get these really bad
headaches, please tell me how to control these urges
for sex..... and I was also wondering if the need for
sex I have means that I'm addicted to sex?
A: There
are many reasons that may stem from events in your life such as not
feeling loved, abuse, exposure to sexual activity and concepts.
We all need to be wanted, to love and be loved, which may be missing
in daily life, and sex can compensate for this. The headaches likely
stem from the anxiety around the whole issue and no, you are not
addicted.
Remedial action may include counselling, or finding a satisfying
lover who by his loving, helps you to relax and enjoy the
experience. There is no purpose in giving up having sex, if you do
it safely and continue to enjoy it.
Your question or contribution is welcome.
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